Driving a two wheeler in Chennai is a no-win situation. On the one hand, you have irate people in sedans cursing you for rapidly making your way through the little gaps. On the other hand, you have people honking their hearts out from behind you if you choose to wait the entire length of a red signal. I found my father using several expletives to express his anger, directed at those on motorbikes, who are in his opinion solely responsible for all the chaos on the roads. I was appalled. I’m one of them, I stopped him quickly. To drive or not to drive, that is my question.